Unnecessary

adjectivenot needed : a fourth Chicago airport is unnecessary.• more than is needed; excessive : the police used unnecessary force.• (of a remark) not appropriate and likely to be offensive or impertinent
Its what everyone need...Contradictions are the most funny things in our life. We (at least the majority of us) love life, enjoyment, innocence of our friends, the aim which nature allows us to achieve & even the most wonderful colors around us in our daily lives. Now what is the point of contradiction in this is what might be running through everyone reading this article. I felt like writing about this while reading my copy of  'Immortals of Meluha'. The truth is that we love the things which comes to us because they are unnecessary for the persons whom we think actually possess those qualities.Consider a flower. We all love roses. Roses are the most erotic symbol which everyone posses when they are in love. Especially we love red roses. What we love in red roses is inarguably its color. Why are they red? This question can evoke a beautiful thought for us. Roses are red because they don't want to have red color in them. It absorbs all other colors from spectrum and gives out what it does not want to possess. When it reaches our eyes, it pleases us. We love it. So, is it rose so innocent to represent these feelings. This has to be sorted out. If our innersoles need very darker feelings and emotions, it absorbs everything related to that and gives out the darker ones for us. This is life. The same goes with enjoyment. We enjoy as we are very sad inside. The innocence of the friends around us are because that they don't want themselves to be innocent. This is the thought which we should lit up within ourselves.
Thus, everything is different. The good ones are the most bad ones and the bad ones are the most good ones. We make choices. When we tend to select the good, it means we are selecting the bad. We are selecting good because we are bad inside. Thus the needs meet the needy. Everything becomes balances. So are we in a society which needs a philosophical boost to understand the good from the bad.
Love,Siv

Robbery

//• Law 
the felonious taking of personal property from someone using force or the threat of force


Is it so?

Is just robbery means taking away of personal property from someone using force or threat? I never felt so. I love chasing things for a philosophical & psychological level. So robbery is a moment of change. Change of emotion with the robber can be like this, tensed to relieved. The change of emotion of the vic can be for sure, any emotion to tensed/shocked. Even from the feeling of Null Zero, it can lead to the final emotion. That is the power of robbery. The realization that, something which was yours 30sec before has gone into  a state of question whether it would ever some back you. This can be your wallet, phone, bag or even your loved ones.

Talking about the robbery of the loved ones is the most truth revealing fact that proves that every single person has got a disorder. I mean a psychological disorder. We all are prone to paranoia. It is true if we have someone very close. It becomes more true when we rely more on the person whom we love or care in our lives. The situation when this person is robbed from life can be with or without permission. When a brother miss his sister after the marriage it is because that he has allowed his brother-in-law to rob his sister from his life. This is a robbery with consent. Their are other kind of robbers and materials of interest who are robbed from an important person's life because they rob without permission and go without permission respectively. The most funny part of the latter section who actually gets robbed without permission are that, they end up one day in the sufferers shoes. They are highly prone to get brutally robbed that the people who had fell for their con would be given a chance to stand back and feel pity for them. Life is like that, everything is redundant and just like a boomerang.

We even have people in the world who are capable of high scale robbery which makes everyone adore them and have admiration towards them. Musicians steal emotions. Sportsmen have a high demand and rob your attention and anxiety. Some men even rob your hatred all for themselves but if we sit back and think who the biggest robber in the world is... We have an answer 'MOTHER'. It is the word which can rob all the emotions and feelings which a person having her blood and values running through his/her veins.

Love,
Sivaram Mony

Wheels

I have been obsessed with Krystoff Keislowsky and his thoughts for quite some time. It started with the tricolor trilogy by him (Blue,Red,White). After I read about it and watched it quite a few times, I started thinking why he was finding meanings in everything around us. When I started looking around for the answer I felt that everything has got a perfect subtext to it around us.

Wheels...

Among all the things around me I felt the most powerful to be the Wheel. So I thought I would blog about it. In general we know that wheel is a symbol of progress. It hugely helped us in developing our civilizations. Even the invention of wheel was proved that humans can think and move faster. Our grand fathers gave it a very vital importance. Now, even today everyone's life are depended on wheels. The national logo even has it embedded on it.

I feel that many people would have spent time thinking about the wheel in a psychological perspective. This same wheel can fit into every type of character. Your vehicle's wheel can be a hero when he takes you in time to your office even when you have got out of your house late. She can also be a bitch when she cheats you by running out of air on the way to some urgent meeting (official or unofficial). Wheels can also be like a mother. They can carry you wherever you want, she supports you like a pregnant mother. She can also take your life. The perfect example for this paradox is the train tyre. They can be both at the same time - the train tyre. They can carry the life on the top and meanwhile they can take life underneath. Only god can do that right. So is it an invention by humans which is so closer to god or even the god in itself. Under which sex do the tyre can be categorized? Male? Female? Transgender? I feel that they fit into everything. These are the images/characters which the wheels bring to us. Now try considering the wheel as a semiotic. I felt a different meaning for it.

Wheel can mean a cycle. It can be even meant to be moving on or else can it be a problem. Problems are like boomerang which comes back to the starting point. Even life becomes highly enjoyable like that. So wheel is the object which is around us, everywhere even on the toy in a Kid's hands to the flight running above our roofs and it has got a very different and infinite meanings.

Love,
Sivaram Mony

Cameo

//
a small character part in a play or movie, played by a distinguished actor or a celebrity 
: [as adj. ] he played numerous cameo roles.


Have everyone of us have done a cameo?

This question might seem to be highly thought provoking. As per the basic industrial beliefs, cameo is a guest appearance done by a celebrity in a cinema or a theatre performance. If we think the other way around, we can understand that, cameo has an other meaning in our daily life. Each person around me is a subject for me. Even my loved ones. I don't do it intentionally but it happens like that. Usually cameos in the art of cinema and theatre, comes with a message or becomes a part of vital change in the story lines but in real life what can be called as cameo is a real question. We see many beggars around us. Many of them are frauds but others are there who are really affected and is into this 'profession'. If we have spend some time to help the real ones even unknowingly, just understand that we have played a cameo in their daily lives. It is just an example.

I met a schizophrenic guy during the last weeks while my discussion sessions with my screenwriter. We used to go out to a good spot to have some friendly chat and good tea. This guy was a tramp who wandered near the shop. He used to buy a tea, drink half of it and pour the other half to a small hole on the ground nearby, and chat with it. If you buy him an extra tea some day, you can say that you have played a cameo in his life. 

We too meet some people in our real life. I have met many situations inside the transport buses when I would have ran short of a 50 paisa for my ticket. In such situations many kind gentlemen have played their cameos in the story of my life. They would help me out by filling the change which I would not have. They might not be knowing that they are playing a very vital cameo in my life. Even many such cameos in our lives can be life changing ones. Everyone of us would have an experience where we would have met a person in our lives whom we have never seen in our entire life. These people would, give us some time from their life to share some good words with us. These words could be thoughts or advices which can seriously give us a point to start our think or a deviation for correcting our thoughts, which is very important.

Like that, everyones life is the perfect example of well casted cameos and unexpected entries. So many of the things around us and even in our stories not happen unexpectedly or made to happen unexpectedly. In life and in virtuality, we all are made to play a very important cameo in someone's life or the other. The thought is so love provoking. We have to love everyone around us and make others love us (for who really deserve that) because we never know in whose life we are going to play a cameo and who is going to play the cameo in our lives.

Love,
Sivaram Mony

Inside Four walls

Four walls can depict anything in our lives. It can be anything. Even a lonely person's ming if you ask him can be said to be closed inside four walls of darkness and even a wedding ring can be said to be kept inside four walls of a well decorated box.

The four walls...

The four walls means closed in its general sense. I spent some time today to think about it. What does four walls or closed inside four walls mean to us? For everyone the difference would be varying. I spent in recent times some time with my friends to ask what blankness means to them. The exact question was like this, "Consider your mind to be blank and without thoughts, what color does it bring to your mind?". Thus I could figure out the basic character of my friends. Many said White, then others said grey and finally i thought it for myself which was 'Black'. If at some point I get a connection between the characters and the colors then I can easily understand that I am the darkest guy among my pals. Its true. My thoughts are dark and my character is dark which I try to cover to an extend. This post is not a confession if the readers think so, it is just that I have taken myself as an example to explain me, myself. 

Thus according to me the four walls have got a philosophical meaning. The color which you choose for your house is the mirror of who and what you really are inside. The color of the room in which you choose to live actually represents the hidden character in you. However you try not to do it, this character of yours will frame the decisions in your life. It is very vital for your success in life.

So what we have to do is to nurture the true yourselves. We should understand who we really are and what you really are. The funny part is that your true color or your true wall color will just help you even if it does harm to others. It will never hurt you. So be yourself before you try to follow someone's nature.

Love,
Sivaram Mony

Personal Message & Cyber Image

// reg.personal messages on social networks
Social networks are meant to be places for public talks but they are the places where people get more personal. It might be because that we have very less chance to have a face to face conversation to another person (in majority cases.)

The Fact...

I recently had a friend. In fact I mean that I am not close to her now. She was a kind of very conserved and closed minded person who seldom talks about her personal feelings. I rather found her recently talking aloud in the social network about her relationship and there were many people liking, commenting and sharing her romantic posts openly relating to the person with whom she is in love (God knows). Social networks give more space to expand our character, true color and even allows us to fake ourselves. I admit here openly that I have had many close encounters with different kinds of girls in my life. If social network was not there I would never have understood that many of them were so open minded like all boys dream. I seldom use this place for expressing my emotional and psychological cravings yet at this point I found it necessary to talk so. 

Personal Messages on social networks also play a very weird role in our daily life. I have seen my friends (both boys and girls) who are entirely different when they are on some personal messaging on social networks. That is a dialectic feeling for everyone to see that. Social network updates can give us what the psychological strength and growth of a person actually is. I started to see many depressed and even many depressants around me after getting active on social networks.

I have seen a college mate of mine (classmate) who runs a website which has starting letters similar to his name. He is the biggest emotional sadist I have seen in this world.  He finds happiness in others sadness and worry. He in true life bitches like a envy stricken snake. On the contrary the 'cyber image' created by him is so buttering and beautiful. I even has doubted about his true character when I saw his 'cyber image'.

The truth is that we all have a 'Cyber Image' which our mind asks us to formulate when we start using social networks. We all have a perception in which we want others to see us and even we have an urge to satisfy our emotional and physical cravings when we are online.

Love,
Sivaram Mony